Timing Affairs of the Heart
Being true to ourselves it is the sure way we will be true to others, allowing the most fulfilling positive relationships to filter into our lives even beyond the romantic ones. One valid method to being to be true to you is to honor the wise wisdom above from the planets. From your name, astrological birth chart, to all the numbers composing the mathematical affect upon your life, you’ve got the best maps you could ever hold in your hands that can allow all the best love to come to you, and what kind of person is truly compatible for you.
Modern day society is so seemingly obsessed with the institution of marriage, but one would have to question why this is- if so many head to the unfortunate end result of divorce. In and out of the United States, this costly to the client but beneficial to the lawyer situation is at an all time high. But where are we ever taught in our schooling or lives what might be the appropriate time to make such a major life decision such as the commitment of marriage?
The choice of marriage is one thing that the planets advise shouldn’t be attempted until the 1st Saturn Return. Right around the ages of 28-30 this important transit sees Saturn returning to the same exact sign it was in at the time of birth. It is at this point the soul is known to be crossing over into the full adult life after one’s exploratory 20’s. With the divorce rate as high as it is today, the majority of the statistics show those people that married well before their late 20’s. Thus this resulted in a choice made before their soul really understood what they would want for such a life-long commitment.
Up until the 1st Saturn Return, one is journeying through their self-discovery period, learning what works and doesn’t for them. If we have acquired things in the life that aren’t adhering to being ultimately responsible to ourselves, the Saturn Return will move them out, even if one chooses resistance. Saturn makes it extremely challenging, as his fatherly influence can be, when one does not want to let go and face reality that some prior decisions made may not have been the appropriate ones. During the 2-year transit of the 1st Saturn Return, the souls’ understanding their true nature unfolds.
Couple the conclusion of one’s numerical 1st Period Cycle and you’ll have the optimal time when one is completely through their self-discovery period. Once we enter into the 2nd Period Cycle, (this will vary 27-35 yrs of age depending upon the Lifepath) such a decision as marriage has the chance to succeed. As we begin to emerge our true talents like never before once the 2nd Period Cycle begins, we become more aware of what we ideally want. Prior to this point in the life, all that “figuring it out phase,” is setting us up to optimally bloom our creative and individual talents in our 30’s and 40’s. By the time we reach our 3rd Period in life by our mid 50’s to early 60’s, our greatest wisdom and inner power is unleashed.
It’s a funny thing that we are required to have a license to drive a car and pass a test to be allowed on the road. But when two find themselves applying for the license for the privileged responsibility of marriage, there is no test involved, no practical age requirement, nor guidelines given to follow. It certainly seems critical in this day and age that we might allow the wisdoms of Astrology and Numerology to be keen indicators of the appropriate timing for any individual to make this most important choice in life.
Marriage is a very precious union in life that today more often than not shifts to the topic of divorce. Now, this doesn’t mean one should live their life in a bubble until the first Saturn Return and Numerical shifts occur to start dating and romancing. But it is wise to adhere to allowing our learning and self-discovery period to do exactly what it’s there for. Things will be experienced, tried and explored. It is healthy to learn from mistakes, yet equally unhealthy to let those mistakes become baggage we take into the blossoming period of our lives as we are meant to properly evolve.
So if you are alone and single on this Valentine’s Day, this is not a time to despair! Recognize where you are in your life is the place you are meant to be in time, and the right situation will present itself to your when you have first and foremost been honest with yourself. And besides, this Valentine’s Day of 2008 falls under Mercury Retrograde, no doubt the happiest of couples everywhere may be misunderstanding one another, are waiting for their late dinners cause the chef is backed up, got stuck in traffic, or hopefully not forgotten the day entirely! Not to forget all you Happy Couples out there, aside from appreciating the beauty of the example you are for others, please do remember to shower some personal love for yourselves. It’ll keep you surely evolving as an everlasting Happy Couple.
Those alone, feel fortunate. Feel the abundance of love that is available for YOU. A wonderful exercise is to take the time to visualize your ultimate romantic partner and write down specifically what you seek in another. Be sure of what you ask of the Universe, because you’re bound to get it. Knowing where you are in life- whether you are the age before or have already experienced your 1st Saturn Return and Numerical blossoming. You are all the wiser for it, because you’ve taken the proper time for yourself that is so important to be the best when that rewarding relationship does show itself to you. You’ll know it when you see it as the very word RELATIONSHIP shows us some of the clues to the way to a healthy one, for romance and all you may experience:
RELATIONSHIP
I IN A REAL HONEST PAIR
TIES ARE IN A REAL ELATION
SET TO SOAR AS HONEST TIES ARE OPEN
NOT TO LET LIES IN TO SPOIL IT IN THEIR TALES
NOT TO LET LIPS IN SIN ALTER IT
ONE TO ONE HEARTS LEARN EONS ON
REAL HEARTS ARE SENT TO LISTEN
HEARTS ON THE EARTH ARE SET TO LAST IN HONEST PAIRS
DISCOVER YOUR Soul's POWER of LOVE
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